Most of us seek a higher goal of
one kind or another. We are in pursuit of a particular kind of
excellence – excellence to improve our lot, and the lot of those we
love. Whether it be in our careers, or a particular hobby, to
achieve excellence and success is what most of us desire.
One does not become excellent at
any pursuit without some sacrifice. You cannot climb Mt. Everest
with only a weeks' training. You don't start a business and get to
the million-dollar mark in a month. Every meaningful college degree
is gotten only with many hours of study, years of classes and the
like. A very high degree of achievement takes a lot of work, let's
face it.
But of course, it pays off. The
one percenters running our world did not all have it handed to them.
Many had to work their way up the ladder, rung by painful rung. They
had to go where their bosses wanted, do what they were told, perhaps
take more schooling on the side. The ones who persevered, and maybe
had luck on their side as well, made it to the top. Luck may play a
role, but luck alone will not produce excellent results. Hard work
can in effect create its own luck too.
So, here are a few ideas on
pursuing and achieving excellence in whatever you set out to do.
Work on your desired outcome or
objective every day. Don't let anything stand in your way, either.
If there is some emergency, handle it, and then get back to your
goal as soon as possible. You have to want it so bad that it burns
in your gut, and does not leave you alone. Then, let nothing stand
in your way.
If you are exhausted, or
frustrated, and just want to hang it up for the day. Or if you want
to table or scrap your project, do this first: Follow the one more
time rule. My father told me this in a roundabout way, by suggesting
once, “You don't want to play just one more game?”
Follow the one more rule: Do it
one more time. Go over your project or proposal one more time.
Practice one more swing. Everything happens one thing at a time. Be
determined to go beyond – to do it just 'one more time.' You
don't have millions and multitudes all at once in you. But you can
do it just one more time. So do it. One. More. Time.
Take good care of yourself. You
are all you ultimately have, all you were born with, all you will die
with. Take care of your physical and emotional health, as though you
were your own loved one. You are worth it. You are ultimately all
you have in this world. Treat yourself kindly, with respect, and
like royalty. You deserve it, and you are worth it.
Keep a tight grip on your
finances, as much as possible. Finances have to come first. Face
it, we all live in a capitalist, money-driven society these days.
Money has to be managed, or it will manage you. You manage it, and
keep control of your destiny.
Good relationships are a tonic for
the soul, and a high motivator. Try and cultivate a few friendships,
especially in your chosen field. Inviting a colleague out for dinner
or coffee can pay rich dividends in morale and information both. And
try to keep in mind, it is not really that difficult to be nice to
people. And it is well worth the effort.
Make a master goal board, and set
your goals a few years out. Then, break them down into smaller
pieces. For example: Participate in a major golf tournament, time
five years. Minor tourneys, in one year. Drive five buckets of
balls, five days a week. Every month play at least ten 18-hole
games. And so forth.
Re-assess and re-work your goals
on occasion. Excellence recognizes that fate throws us ugly curves
at times. As excellently-designed human beings, we can ADAPT and
re-configure ourselves and our goals. Adapt, change direction if
need be, and go on. Let nothing stop you, nothing defeat you on your
journey to excellence in your field.
Routine and ritual can help keep
you on track. Saturday is golf day. Monday, Wednesday and Friday
are weight room day. Sunday is church, or cleaning day, or whatever.
And every day, you can take a moment to think, what have I done to
push myself towards excellence in my desired pursuit? A regular
routine can simplify the process of getting from here to excellence.
Good luck in all your pursuits, and
thanks for reading.